"A Great Way to Handle a Dispute" (one that actually works!!!!)

Today's Reading: Acts 11:1-18


In today's reading we find that Peter faces criticism from the believers in Jerusalem because he went into the house of uncircumcised men and ate with them, which violated Jewish law. In Chapter 10, God specifically told Peter to go to the home of Cornelius, who was a Gentile, and he was to share the good news of Jesus salvation. When he did this, all who heard the message believed and were baptized with the Holy Spirit. Thus paving the way for all Gentiles to hear and receive salvation.


The believers in Jerusalem were not privy to God's call to Peter and they criticized him for his actions.


So here we have Christians in a dispute. Lets see what we can take away from their experience.


1. Try to find out all of the facts before confronting someone
vs 1-3

The leaders in Jerusalem criticised Peter because they did not have all of the facts about the situation. They could have asked Peter privately to relate the story of what had happened rather than confronting him openly in a critical fashion.


2. Respond in a non-defensive, grace filled manor. vs 4-17

When confronted by his fellow believers, Peter could have become defensive.

"You weren't there, how do you know what went on?"
"What right do you have to question me?"
"When was the last time YOU saw a vision?"


Such defensive responses may roll off our tongue, but they do nothing to end a dispute, they only serve inflame the disagreement.

Peter was gracious in his response, he was precise and detailed in telling them what had happened.

3. Unity is the Ultimate "WIN" vs 18

After hearing Peter's story, the believers accepted what was said, made no further objections, and praised God for what He was doing in the Gentiles. We don't see either "side" trying to "win" their argument or holding a grudge. Rather they moved on to the bigger picture of leading the growing church in Jerusalem.

When faced with uncertain facts or opposition from those we are close too, let's follow the example of the early church and seek to understand.

Tomorrow: A Man you Want as your Friend.